Tips for Working With Friends
So you just found out your buddy got a big promotion and is now ready to buy a sexy luxury condo in downtown Chicago. He’s your boy–you’ve known him since grade school–of course he’s going to give you first crack at the business, and you’ve already started spending the commission check. But before you blindly agree to be his agent, stop and think of the potential consequences of working with close friends and how you can make sure it’s a positive experience for both of you.
Treat Them Like Any Other Client
Many real estate pros go one of two ways when they work with friends – and both are bad. The first is when all their professional experience and training goes out the window and they act super lax and unprofessional thinking it will be OK because they know the client.
The other is the agent who takes things so seriously that they literally suck all the fun out of the entire process for the client, who then ends up never wanting to work with–or refer anyone to them–again.
What’s the lesson here? Forget about the personal relationship you have with this particular client and give them the same high level of service and overall experience you provide to all your other clients. If you follow that golden rule, you virtually eliminate the risk of damaging the personal or professional relationship with the client.
Expect To Go Above and Beyond
I have literally seen agents arguing with close friends they are representing while in the hallway outside the closing office. The expectations the client had vs. the expectations the agent had might as well have existed in two separate universes.
If you work for people you know personally, know from the beginning that meeting the minimum acceptable requirements of your job will not be enough. If that’s all you do, then you will likely upset your client more times than not.
Remember, your friends are hiring you because they think you’re good at your job and because they want to give you the business. But they also subconsciously might expect to lean on you a little more–and probably expect more than if they hired some agent they saw on a billboard. For example, I have cleaned up more cat and dog messes than I can count for friends who didn’t have time to make it home to clean up before a showing. I’ve also picked up disgusting dirty clothes, picked people up from the airport, driven them to the suburbs, and even let them sleep on my couch when needed.
The bottom line is, if you’re not prepared to go above and beyond for the people you have pre-existing personal relationships with, then this is not a good source of business for you. If the idea of working with friends leaves you with apprehensions, then focus your energy in other areas.
Over-Document to Avoid Disaster
Some people handle stress better than others. And anyway you slice it, selling or buying a house is a stressful experience for any client. Things are said, things are forgotten or misinterpreted, and in the end, feelings can be hurt and relationships damaged. Fortunately, there is an easy way to avoid this: over-document.
You should never conduct any business for a friend without having detailed and explicit direction in writing. This goes for counter offers (which often happen orally or via email after the initial offer is submitted), commission changes, or anything else that can be misinterpreted or otherwise come back to bite you in the butt.
I learned my lesson the hard way. I had a client who I had known for years, and we discussed multiple times during the process that she’d be taking the washer/dryer (which were wedding gifts from her parents) and replacing them with similar models. I assumed the expectation couldn’t have been anymore clear.
However, right before closing, the buyer’s attorney asked why those items were missing during the final walk-through. My client suddenly had amnesia and denied ever having a conversation about replacing the washer and dryer. In fact, she was adamant that I had committed to giving the buyer a credit for these items out of my own pocket.
What were my choices at that point? Because I’d done such a poor job documenting the transactional details, I had no choice but to give up $1,000 of my commission to cover the cost of the credit so the deal would close and I could salvage the relationship with my client.
The lesson here? Documentation and organization are key to being successful with any type of transaction, and become even more essential when dealing with clients you have a relationship with.
If you have a strong network, leveraging personal relationships to grow your business can be one of the best paths to success. But it doesn’t come without risks. To effectively work with friends, it’s important to treat them like all your other clients, expect to go above and beyond, and over-document to avoid damaging either the professional or personal relationship. Follow these tips and you can make working your personal network a key part of your success in 2014.
Author: Scott Newman – ypnlounge – Realtor.org
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